| THE DRAGON PERSONALITY The
mighty and magnificent Dragon of mythical folklore never
ceases to enchant or stir the imagination. So it
must be said that some of its magical qualities, illusory
or not, are contained in those born under his sign.
The Dragon person is magnanimous and full of vitality
and strength. To him, life is a blaze of colors and he is
constantly on the go. Egotistical, eccentric, dogmatic,
whimsical or terribly demanding and unreasonable, he is
still never without a band of admirers. Proud,
aristocratic and very direct, the Dragon-born establishes
his ideals early in life and demands the same high
standards and perfection from others that he has for
himself.
In China, the Dragon symbolizes the Emperor or the
male. It represents power; those born in the Dragon year
are said to wear the horns of destiny. A Dragon child
will tend to take up important burdens and
responsibilities even if he happens to be the youngest in
the family. Often, older Dragon children can bring up
their younger siblings with more authority than the
parents.
The Dragon is a veritable storehouse of energy. His
impetuosity, eagerness and almost religious zeal can
blaze like the fabled fire the Dragon emits from its
mouth. He has the potential for accomplishing great
things, which is fortunate as the Dragon likes to perform
on a grand scale. However, unless he contains his
premature enthusiasm, he may burn himself out and end up
in a puff of smoke. He is the most liable to become
fanatical over an issue. Whatever the Dragon does, good
or bad, he will never fail to make the headlines. The
Chinese call him the guardian of wealth and power.
Certainly a prosperous sign to belong to. But then again,
the Dragon is the sign most prone to megalomania.
The powerful Dragon is difficult to contest, at times
even impossible. He tends to intimidate those who dare
challenge him. An angry, spurned Dragon could be like the
big bad wolf at your door. He'll huff and he'll puff
until he blows your house down.
But the Dragon is likely to be filial in spite of his
strong temper and dogmatic ways. Whatever differences he
or she may have with the family will be forgotten or set
aside when they call for aid. The Dragon can put aside
domestic resentments and come to the rescue promptly and
with largesse. However, his family can also count on a
severe lecture from him once the crisis is over. The
Dragon seldom minces words. He cites his views like
Imperial Edicts. Although he may rave about the virtues
of free speech and democracy--don't buy it. He feels
himself to be above the law and doesn't always practice
what he preaches.
Sometimes being civil, affectionate and honey-tongued
can be a terrible strain on the Dragon. He would much
rather be rough, rude and utterly inconsiderate when
provoked. But don't try to give him back the same
medicine. Somehow, it just won't work, unless you happen
to be another Dragon and decide to do battle. Then we can
all sit around and watch the magnificent fireworks that
will make the 4th of July look like candles on a birthday
cake.
In spite of his volcano of emotions, the Dragon cannot
be said to be sentimental, sensitive or very romantic. He
takes love and adulation for granted: they are his just
due. But while he may be stubborn, irrational and
overbearing when irked, the Dragon can forgive you the
moment he gets over his outburst. And since things are
supposed to work both ways, he expects your forgiveness
for his errors, too. He may even neglect to apologize at
times, which may seem callous, but then the Dragon really
has no time to explain himself or be bothered by grudges
or trifles; he just wants to get on with his work.
While the Dragon may be strong and decisive, he is not
cunning or guileful. He shuns easy adaptability and
tricky negotiations. Were the contest to be decided on
strength alone, the Dragon would conquer hands down; but
he is often overconfident, brash and deluded by his
wonderful visions--thus neglecting to pay attention to
possible upsets or underhanded plots that could overthrow
him. Instead of sniffing around for brewing schemes, he
prefers to plunge into battle, often refusing to retreat
even in the face of overwhelming odds. Too proud, he
disdains to call for assistance; too sure, he rarely
keeps anything in reserve. Too intent on going forward,
he forgets to protect his rear and flanks. Too upright,
he refuses to lie. Further, he is unable to interpret
clever insinuations and generally fails to spot the evil
and subversive intent of his enemies.
To the Dragon person, having a purpose or special
mission in his life is vital. It's just not healthy for
him to lie around with nothing to do. He must always have
a cause to fight for; a goal to reach; a right to wrong.
Otherwise, how do you expect him to keep that inner fire
burning? Without his pet projects, rallies and other
impossible schemes, the Dragon is like a locomotive
without fuel. He fizzles out and becomes dull and
listless.
The Dragon has the same affinity for success as the
Snake, but because he expresses his views more openly and
his failures are more likely to involve some form of
physical exertion, he is usually spared deep
psychological problems. Being a doer, he will take to
one-man crusades, lead demonstrations, write letters to
the newspapers or collect a million signatures on a
petition. This method of belching fire and brimstone
effectively rids him of any inner neurosis that could
result otherwise.
The Dragon lady is the Grand Dame of the cycle. She
will be a suffragette, a believer of equal rights for
women. Double standards and discrimination will arouse
her wildest passions. What a man can do, she can probably
do better. Don't ever underestimate her. She is going to
beat you at your own game--or die trying. She'll never
stand idly by and accept her fate. She is the stuff
empires are built on, the matriarch of old. Cross her and
the sky will fall.
To tell the truth, the Dragon female is strictly a
no-nonsense person. She will show this by the way she
dresses. Practical and functional clothes appeal to her
most. No frills, flimsy laces, buttons and bows, but a
minimum of complications. Clothes that go on and off
easily and provide her with maximum movement will be her
top choice. She hates restrictions and limitations.
Actually, she may even secretly prefer a uniform if she
has military or institutional inclinations. This way,
starched, crisp and superbly efficient, she can pop off
to work every day without the bother of having to decide
what to wear.
The Dragon girl seldom, if ever, over-decorates
herself. Her brilliance is in her mind and this will
shine forth, without any trimmings. Self-esteem rates
very high with all Dragons, so the Dragon female will be
no exception. She doesn't expect to be treated like
divinity though she does have her airs. She just wants
your respect and she will do everything in her power to
get it.
The lady Dragon is totally emancipated, so strong-arm
tactics will get you nowhere. You might as well resign
yourself--she will have the last word.
Despite his faults being as numerous as his virtues,
the luster of the Dragon shines on everyone. He is not
petty, nor is he begrudging with favors. He may grumble a
lot, but he cannot resist helping the needy or coming to
the rescue when you are in trouble. This may not be
because he feels real compassion or genuine concern; more
often than not, the Dragon helps because he has a
profound sense of duty to all.
The Dragon will somehow always have a notable
contribution to make. You can count on his support, for
he will not let you down if he can help it. The Dragon
will exhaust all his resources before he admits failure.
An extrovert and lover of nature, this person will be an
active sportsman, a travel bug and an excellent talker.
He has the makings of a super-salesman and he and his
band of loyal followers will always be promoting
something.
The weather conditions at the time of a Dragon's birth
will affect his life a great deal. A child born during a
storm will lead a tempestuous and hazardous life beset by
danger or spectacular experiences. One born on a day when
the sea (his ancestral home) and the heavens are calm
will have a protected existence and a more amiable
nature.
The Dragon native will either marry young or prefer to
remain single. He can be happy leading a solitary life,
as his work and career will keep him occupied. He will
seldom lack friends or admirers to keep him company.
The Dragon is not a spendthrift, but he is not a
miser, either. He is generous with money but never too
concerned about his bank balance unless he happens to
have a strong combination with money-making signs.
The Dragon person is super-positive. Nothing will keep
him down for long, and even when he has a bad case of the
doldrums, he will snap out of it faster than anyone else.
His buoyancy defies rhyme or reason.
For a sign that never accepts defeat, the Dragon
provides his own worst opposition. He will dash headlong
into a disastrous situation when he is convinced he is
right. Pompous and self-destructive, you say? No, not
really. It is just that this person must follow his plans
through--irregardless of the consequences. After all, he
was put on earth to raise standards to superlative
heights and the more you try to change his course of
action or steer him away from trouble, the more
headstrong he becomes. He lives up to his reputation for
taking the lead even when it becomes most unpleasant.
Whatever else, the Dragon will be an open person--you
can read him like a book. It is difficult for him to
pretend emotions he does not feel. He rarely even bothers
to try. He is not secretive either, and cannot keep a
confidence for too long. Even when he swears not to
breathe a word of it, you can be sure he will blurt it
out when he gets angry and the sparks begin to fly. You
say he promised to keep it a secret? What secret? How can
you bother him with such a trivial thing at a time like
this?
His feelings are genuine and always straight from his
heart. When he declares he loves you, you can be
absolutely sure he is sincere.
Should he belong to the rougher variety of Dragons, he
could be too a super-salesman and he and his band of
loyal followers will always be promoting something.
The weather conditions at the time of a Dragon's birth
will affect his life a great deal. A child born during a
storm will lead a tempestuous and hazardous life beset by
danger or spectacular experiences. One born on a day when
the sea (his ancestral home) and the heavens are calm
will have a protected existence and a more amiable
nature.
The Dragon native will either marry young or prefer to
remain single. He can be happy leading a solitary life,
as his work and career will keep him occupied. He will
seldom lack friends or admirers to keep him company.
The Dragon is not a spendthrift, but he is not a
miser, either. He is generous with money but never too
concerned about his bank balance unless he happens to
have a strong combination with money-making signs.
The Dragon person is super-positive. Nothing will keep
him down for long, and even when he has a bad case of the
doldrums, he will snap out of it faster than anyone else.
His buoyancy defies rhyme or reason.
For a sign that never accepts defeat, the Dragon
provides his own worst opposition. He will dash headlong
into a disastrous situation when he is convinced he is
right. Pompous and self-destructive, you say? No, not
really. It is just that this person must follow his plans
through--irregardless of the consequences. After all, he
was put on earth to raise standards to superlative
heights and the more you try to change his course of
action or steer him away from trouble, the more
headstrong he becomes. He lives up to his reputation for
taking the lead even when it becomes most unpleasant.
Whatever else, the Dragon will be an open person--you
can read him like a book. It is difficult for him to
pretend emotions he does not feel. He rarely even bothers
to try. He is not secretive either, and cannot keep a
confidence for too long. Even when he swears not to
breathe a word of it, you can be sure he will blurt it
out when he gets angry and the sparks begin to fly. You
say he promised to keep it a secret? What secret? How can
you bother him with such a trivial thing at a time like
this?
His feelings are genuine and always straight from his
heart. When he declares he loves you, you can be
absolutely sure he is sincere.
Should he belong to the rougher variety of Dragons, he
could be too abrasive. His direct, brusque manners and
callousness could well antagonize people. But generally
speaking, he will inspire action. He should personally
attend to things he wants done immediately instead of
writing or dealing over the phone. His presence and
magnetism will swing people over to his way of thinking.
He motivates everyone he comes into contact with. He
himself needs no motivation, as he is more than capable
of generating his own momentum.
It will never be hard to place your confidence in the
truthful Dragon. He seldom wavers, cowers or shifts
responsibility. He possesses little or no self-doubt.
With his natural pioneering spirit, his attempts will be
stupendous successes or unbelievable exercises in
futility. He must drive right to the very edge of the
precipice and take a look for himself. Just hold your
breath, keep your fingers crossed and pray that he has
good brakes.
I guess Frank Sinatra, who is a Dragon, and his song
"My Way" concisely sum up how the Dragon ticks.
Of all the animal signs, the Dragon will be attracted
most to the irresistible Monkey. The Monkey will
similarly be drawn to the Dragon's majesty and they will
make an unbeatable team. A Dragon-Rat union will be an
equally winning combination as the Rat is crafty where
the Dragon is strong. They could do great things
together. The Dragon will likewise make a good match with
the cool and venerable Snake, whose wisdom could
check the Dragon's excessiveness.
Tiger, Rooster, Horse, Sheep, Rabbit and boar will all
seek the Dragon out for his beauty and his strength. Two
Dragons will get along pretty well but the Dragon's
relationship with the Ox may be a bit strained by the
Ox's similar authoritativeness. Of all the animal signs,
perhaps only the Dog will make a miserable partner for
the Dragon. The Dragon will come under the close scrutiny
of the Dog and the Dog will be too cynical to fall under
his spell.
Above all, it is worth remembering that although the
Dragon is dazzling, he is not deep. Only when he can
harness his legendary powers can he perform miracles. He
needs people to believe in him!
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THE DRAGON CHILD
The high-spirited Dragon child is an
innovator. Forceful, fearless and
vibrant--nothing will daunt his idealistic outlook on
life. He will formulate his own principles early in life
and will need or ask for very little help. He is
respectful of his elders and will be able to obey
commands precisely.
This intense child needs to anchor his passions to
something or someone he considers worthy of his devotion.
He will have countless idols--his teachers, his parents
or anyone he regards highly. He is bright, aggressive and
independent. Tough and resilient, he can take teasing or
shoving around because he is willing and ready to fight
for his rights. Outspoken and ambitious, he should be
given responsibilities in order to keep him occupied and
make him feel useful. However, he should not be allowed
to bully less assertive children. His domineering ways
must be checked at an early age.
The Dragon child must be made to feel his worth. He
would prefer that you needed him instead of just loved
him. His efforts are always sincere and should be
praised, as he will work very hard to please you and gain
your respect. Never bruise his ego by laughing at him,
even if he goes about performing a simple chore as if it
were some intricate ritual. The Dragon's self-esteem is
immeasurable. His dreams of greatness are all real and
tangible to him. In life, his emotions will touch soaring
heights and unfathomable depths. If he fails at anything,
he has to be reassured that the sun will shine again the
next day. He judges himself very harshly. Once he
realizes his mistake, there will be no need for you to
reproach or punish him, as he will be the first to
chastise himself and make amends.
If your child is a Dragon, he will want or maybe even
demand that you rely on him and he will do his best never
to disappoint you. This proud and self-reliant youngster
will be strong and faithful to his ideals always. He was
born to lead and excel.
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