 We
will feel the yoke of responsibility coming down on us this year. No
success can be achieved without conscientious efforts. The trials and
tribulations the Ox year brings will be mainly on the home front. It is a good
time to settle domestic affairs and put your house in order.
Way-out fashions,
abstract art forms and newfangled notions will be given an impassive stare by
the phlegmatic Ox, while politics and diplomacy will simply be treated with
indifference. Better stick to routine and support conservative policies.
Frivolities are out!
This year will no doubt bear fruit, but the
motto is: "No work, no pay!" Time waits for no man; if we are too lazy to sow
then we can blame no one if we have nothing to reap. We will find a great many
things requiring our attention, and the list of what needs to be done will seem
endless. The Spartan influence of the Ox will be a constantly cracking whip over
our heads. Better to apply oneself diligently than waste time arguing with the
authorities. They will prevail, as the year of the Ox favors discipline.
Most conflicts this year will arise more from a lack of communication and
refusal to give in on small technicalities than anything else. But hang on and
be patient. Everything will be sorted out and we will be rewarded for our
efforts--so long as we remember to do things the conventional way. This is no
time for tricky shortcuts.
For the rebels, it may be worthwhile to
point out that although the stoical Ox is soft-spoken, he carries a big stick,
and this is his year.
THE OX PERSONALITY
The Ox or the Buffalo sign
symbolizes prosperity through fortitude and hard work. A person born
during this year will be dependable, calm and methodical. A patient and tireless
worker, he sticks to routine and conventions. Although he is generally
fair-minded and a good listener, it is difficult to make him change his views as
he is stubborn and often has strong prejudices.
Still, because of
his steady and trustworthy character, the Ox person will be entrusted with
positions of authority and responsibility. He will not fall short where duty
calls. As a matter of fact, he should be careful not to get carried away.
Beneath his somewhat modest but neat appearance, the Ox shields a resolute and
logical mind. His intelligence and dexterity is hidden by the reticent and
undemonstrative front. But in spite of being basically an introvert, his
forceful nature can turn him into a commanding and eloquent speaker when the
occasion arises. In times of turmoil, his presence of mind, refusal to be
intimidated and innate self-confidence will restore order. He walks with his
head held high.
A person born under this particular sign is
systematic. He adheres to fixed patterns and has great respect for tradition. In
fact, he tends to do exactly what is expected of him and is so predictable, that
he may be unfairly criticized for a lack of imagination. But the dutiful Ox
knows that only through doing things in their proper order can he hope to
achieve lasting success. His is the uncluttered mind. You won't find him
muddling through life depending on his luck to pull him through. What people
born under the other signs may accomplish by guile and wit, the Ox-born will by
sheer tenacity and dedication. You can rely on his promises; once he gives his
word, he will stick by it. Public opinion means little to him. He will apply
himself wholeheartedly to whatever task he is doing and finish the job. He
detests loose ends.
The Ox can be terribly naive about affairs of
the heart. He cannot fully comprehend the entrapments of love, much less employ
enticing strategy and other allures to plead his romantic cause. Don't expect
lyric poetry and moonlight serenades from him. He just doesn't have the right
chemistry for these sort of things. Even his presents are likely to be strong
and durable wares: unpretentious and long lasting.
Because they
are traditionalists, the Ox man and woman will also be inclined to long
courtships. It takes time for them to develop intimate relationships. They are
slow to warm up and reveal their true feelings. The Ox man may be a knight of
the most distinguished order, a gentleman of the highest caliber, but he can
turn into a fumbling, tongued-tied lad when it comes to wooing his fair maiden.
But if you marry him and place your trust squarely on his shoulders, he will
never disappoint you; he will stick by you faithfully all his life. You never
need worry about the rent or the bills getting paid. He may not keep you in
diamonds and furs but life will be as comfortable as he can make it and you will
never be in need.
If you have the good fortune to marry an Ox
lady, you sure picked the no-nonsense type of girl. She'll starch your collar
just the way your mother does it, fold your newspaper neatly on the breakfast
table every day without fail and poach your eggs to perfection. Even that "good
morning" kiss may seem like nothing more than a dutiful peck now and then. But
if you think of her as being boring or too set in her ways, consider this. She
is neat and punctual. You will never go through married life without clean
shirts or holes in your socks or having to eat burnt dinners. Honest,
hardworking and above reproach, she will make an ideal wife. The checkbook will
be balanced and your joint account never overdrawn. It's up to you to liven up
her life and take the lead. After all, the Ox person usually performs more than
his or her share. A lot of wonderful things come wrapped in plain brown paper.
The Ox is one of them. Don't ever belittle the packaging. He is worth his weight
in gold.
Aside from his many sterling qualities, the Ox person is
also known to nurture grievances far too long. He has a long and exacting
memory, and injuries can be registered down to their last detail.
Where other signs such as the Tiger, Rooster or Rat may complain vehemently when
they are upset and the Sheep and Rabbit will sulk and become morose, the Ox will
react by plunging himself into hard work to alleviate his misery and tension. If
severely disappointed in love, he may bury himself in his work forever and lead
a solitary existence instead of running the risk of ever being humiliated or
rejected again.
The Ox will insist on settling his accounts. Debts
will be paid to the last decimal point. If he owes you something he will never
forgive himself if he doesn't show his gratitude in a tangible way. No profuse
but empty phrases of appreciation from him. He considers flowery words and
lavish flattery uncouth and beneath his dignity. But won't it come as a surprise
to you when you find out that that gruff fellow, who barely managed to mumble a
"Thank you," left you something in his will? Well, that's a typical Ox gesture
for you. If anyone's actions speak louder than his words--his do.
Beware of the Ox's legendary patience, because when an Ox person loses his
temper, he is really something to reckon with. It could be a terrifying
experience. There will be no reasoning with him: he will act like a bull and
attack anyone in his path. The only advisable thing to do is to get out of his
way until he cools off. By and large, however, he is seldom given to such taxing
display of fireworks unless he finds his situation truly unbearable.
At home, his word is law. He knows how to give orders as well as follow them.
And he expects his directives to be carried out to the letter. He has a
materialistic outlook on life, and although he may be inordinately fond and
proud of his family, he demands a lot from them, too. He will use the yardstick
of success and personal achievement to measure his love for them. Even though he
is not easily moved by emotions, he is a good provider and is capable of great
sacrifices for his family's welfare. When and where it really counts, he will
not let them down.
An Ox person will always be an asset to his
firm and family. He has no reason to feel insecure himself as he will be well
cared for all his life. Reason dictates that one so valuable should not be left
to fend for himself.
The Ox born during the day will be more
aggressive and active compared to the quiet night ox. Similarly, the winter Ox
will have more trying times and a leaner life than the summer Ox.
The native of this lunar sign is a down-to-earth type and will follow his head
rather than his heart. So if you want to win your case, appeal to his reason and
intelligence. Make a list of the pros and cons and support every request with
pertinent and reliable data. Sentiments alone rarely make him change his mind.
He also has a remarkable constitution and does not get sick easily. Proud and
uncompromising, the Ox is disdainful of weakness in others. If he can learn to
cultivate more humor and compassion, he will be much happier.
A
natural-born leader and disciplinarian, he tends to be too rigid. Likely to be a
self-made man, he staunchly believes everyone should pull his own weight--and no
hedging about it either. At his worst, the Ox is unapproachable, inflexible and
narrow-minded. His lack of tact and consideration for others coupled with a
militant view of life at times could make him unsuitable for positions involving
public relations, diplomacy and finesse. However, he is respected and liked for
his basic honesty, unpretentiousness and steadfast principles. He inspires
loyalty in all his subordinates, as no task is beneath him.
As
mentioned earlier, the Ox person is not one who will go for the shortcuts. His
quiet dignity and strong morals will prevent him from resorting to unfair means
to achieve his goals. He will dislike asking others for help. As a matter of
fact, he is so self-reliant, that you may have to beg him to accept a service.
The Ox-born has dynastic tendencies. Careful and conscientious, he builds things
to last. This sturdiness in his genes will extend to his offspring and
generations to come even if they are not born under the same sign. His excellent
character makes him an empire builder. He will take all precautions to ensure
the prosperity and survival of his lineage.
As the paterfamilias,
he will lay down the laws pontifically and stand for no youthful rebellion. He
builds his life around his home, his work and his country and will always prefer
long-term, stable investments. Being a strict creature of habit, he is no
gambler: risks and razor-thin margins unnerve him because they endanger his
deep-felt need for security.
Of all the twelve signs, the colorful
Rooster will bring the sunshine into the Ox's orderly life and make a splendid
partner for him. Both have high respect for authority, admire efficiency and
possess strong dedication to duty. These common attributes will unite them.
Equally well suited will be the affectionate Rat or the wise Snake, both of whom
will care deeply for the worthy Ox. Dragon, Rabbit, Ox, Horse, Boar and Monkey
will also be compatible to a lesser degree with the Ox. But the Dog may find him
too bland and criticize his lack of humor; the Ox himself will not care too much
for the company of the capricious Sheep or the rebellious Tiger native, who in
turn will resent his regimentation.
Whatever happens, one can be
sure that the success enjoyed by the Ox will have been earned by his own merits.
In short, the strong and disciplined Ox does not expect and will not be getting
any free rides in life. This stalwart fellow will emerge a winner through his
own efforts and no one should be more deserving.
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THE OX CHILD
This child will not be a
crybaby. He is unusually tough and can endure hardship. A rugged
individualist, he tends to begin speaking late and would rather settle arguments
with his fists. Stubborn and unyielding, he can turn the house upside down when
he puts his mind to it. He is not the fussy type but will be adamant about the
few concessions he demands. One of them will be his privacy.
He
won't resent discipline and in fact will welcome your fixing a schedule for him.
He may insist on having his meals served at the same time each day but he will
not be particular about food. He thrives on regularity; knowing where everything
is and what is expected of him will give him a sense of security. A girl born
under this sign will go for order and neatness at home.
The Ox
youngster enjoys taking charge when mother or teacher is away and is stern and
unsympathetic to offenders. He can and usually will give you an unbiased
opinion, as he is not easily influenced or taken in by flattery. Instead of
bribing or begging him to do something unpleasant, it will be more effective to
simply tell him, "It is an order!" He is not argumentative by nature but you
must gain his respect before he will obey you.
He relishes
teaching younger children and will show remarkable patience and perseverance in
waiting for what he wants. Being the strong, silent type, he may not readily
reveal his feelings. He can be deeply hurt and no one may even suspect it,
because the Ox child is a very private person. Although he may put up a blunt,
strong-willed and loyal front, the Ox is terribly naive about the realities of
life. He needs to be protected in this respect and he will rely heavily on moral
support from his parents, teachers and family.
At school, he may
be an exemplary student as he is not one to lock horns with the authorities. His
serious and no-nonsense outlook on life makes him avoid joking or clowning
around. He should be encouraged to express his emotions and develop his sense of
humor.
Above all, he will be reliable and responsible. He will win
the respect of his elders as well as his peers. The Ox child will be an
outstanding example of both an excellent leader and follower and perform his
duties well.
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