True Friendship

What is True Friendship?

Have you ever wondered what exactly the phrase “A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed" actually mean? Many boastfully claim that they know the true essence of friendship but are they really sure of? People often talk about the true value of friendship without actually knowing what exactly it stands for. A true friendship is one, where the individuals do not have to be formal and that the comfort level which each share with each other is of enormous quality. Sharing true friendship is the situation, when the person concerned is considered as one among your family members. It is the kind of friendship that even if you don't correspond with each other for some time; your friendship is bound to remain unharmed. Best friends need not meet up often to make sure that their friendship remains in a good shape.

A true friendship is solely based on trust. The trust between friends should be such that if one friend falls in trouble, the other will not think twice to help. Thus if the bond between two friends is strong, the friendship will endure all odds and bound to stay, without showing signs of withering. No geographical distances or middleman interference can actually sour the relation. For a just friend these hindrances are just a momentary affair and soon to collapse, thus keeping the friendship intact. Thus true friends always make it a point to stay in touch, even in the verge of being exhausted due to the drudgery of everyday life; for a true friendship is bound to bloom is passage of. Thus it should be noted a true friendship thrives on trust, inspiration and comfort. So it is true friends who can actually understand each other without expressing every feelings verbally. Thus true friends are always available at the time of the others trouble. A true friend will have the tendency of facing danger together and be each other’s support forever.

Another striking aspect of a best friendship is both the friends don’t analyse each other only because they don’t have to. They accept each other with all their positive and negative qualities. Nothing is hidden between true friends for both are very much acquainted with each other's strengths as well as weaknesses. Thus in a way one would not overpower the other. They know how to respect each other’s feelings as well sentiments. A true friend can thus very well understand the similarities and respect the differences. Moreover a true friend cannot stand any outsider commenting or criticizing their friendship and they can put up a very firm resistance, if anyone intends to do so.

And the vital aspect of true friends is that they should not be opportunists. True friends do not help each just with the intention of making profit but to drag each other out from danger. Thus a true friendship is undoubtedly marked by selflessness. Best friends support even each other, even if the whole world opposes them. Thus it is not that easy getting a true friend for the lifetime but those who are blessed with such kind of friendship should remain ever grateful. So just remember one thing, all your friends cannot be your best friend so try preserving the precious one.