Does He love me? How To know If He Loves Me

Sometimes it becomes difficult for girls to understand if someone loves them . Boys hesitate to express their feelings in words in fear of rejection and the social stigma attached to it, while it is not really customary for girls to make the first move. He may not verbally express his love, but he may show signs that he is head over heels in love with you. I'm sure you'll see. To resolve this issue, we highlight on some tell-tell signs that a boy is in love with you. Be aware of the different behavioral patterns, body languages and signs that tell you whether a person bears those special feelings for you. Check out the ways to find out if he loves you:

Signs to know if he loves you:

His eyes Sparkle
A guy’s eye contact often tells a lot about him and his feelings towards you. Remember this, we often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes. So is he in love with you? If his eyes sparkle with happiness, you’ve definitely made a great impression on him!You can tell a lot about whether a guy likes you by the way he looks at you, and the way he pays attention to you.

He Introduces You to His Family
You can bet that as soon as he introduces a girlfriend to his mother, she'll be on his case about grandchildren. So if he's getting the two of you together, he knows what he's getting himself into and that there might be a future with you

Common Interests
So take notice of how often he wants to do things with you or go out with you, be it movies, games or chores. If it seems rather frequent, it’s a good sign he’s into you. And he obviously wants you to think you share a lot of common interests, which makes him more likeable!

He Keeps Your Stuff Out at His Place
He's gone public with your place in his pad. You see, men like to maintain at least the image of being detached for as long as possible. So leaving unmistakable evidence in our home that there's a woman present in our life is a bright red flag that you're The One.

He's overly concerned
Good friends are concerned about you, but a guy who likes you would always be overly concerned. He would remind you about all your appointments, he’d ask you if you’ve had lunch, he’d offer you a jacket even if it isn’t cold, he’d suggest a trip to the doctor even if you just cough once!These are some surefire ways to know whether he’s in love with you, but every girl can also sense something in the air, whether it’s love or something else. So rely on your senses and these next five points on whether he’s in love with you.

He talks about the future
"Every time I tell my girlfriend where I see 'me' down the road, I'm really trying to gauge whether she sees herself there with me," says Jon, 26. How do you know when a guy's just bragging about his game plan and when he's quietly declaring his love? It's all in the way he talks. If he tells you he wants to move to Tahiti, be a beach bum, and ogle the local girls, no dice. If he mentions that he sees himself eventually settling in San Francisco, then immediately asks if you could ever envision living there, he's emitting serious long-term relationship rays.

He's happy around you
If he’s fond of you or likes you, you’ll see that he smiles and blushes a lot more easily when you’re around him. He would avoid any distractions and make you the center of his attention, no matter where he is or what he’s doing.

He Chooses the Perfect Gift
Don't worry if his gifts are duds, but if he consistently hits it out of the park with his present shopping skills, take it as a compliment: he's not only a good listener, he's also thoughtful…and willing to spend hours searching for exactly the right thing.

You've probably dated your fair share of women and have always preferred keeping your options open, but lately, there's this particular woman that has you contemplating if she's "the one." In order to help you figure this out, here is a compiled list of the top 10 ways to know you're in love.

1 - You're done with your ex

In most of the cases, a breakup is succeeded by a significant amount of time spent wondering whether or not you guys made the correct decision in going your individual ways or simply thinking about her. These doubts can resurface again and again depending on how long the two of you were together. However, ever since you met that particular girl, the thought of getting back together with your ex is the furthest thing from your mind. Come to think of it, you barely remember what you found so appealing about your ex in the first place.

2 - You can't help but think about her

Instead, you are preoccupied by thoughts of her. She just drops into your head for no rhyme or reason, and you ponder upon whether she thinks about you even half as much as you think of her. You think about what she's doing and even consider calling her up, refraining however, lest it makes you seem overly eager. It gets worse. You're out with your friends and you come across a poster for a show that she would love, or you see something in a shop window and think about how much she would love to have that particular item or how good it would look on her, but normally wouldn't even have looked at it twice. If she's the first thing on your mind when you wake up and the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep, and you've even dreamed about her on a couple of occasions, then you don't really even require to read on any further to know if you're in love (but, just to be certain, should anyway).

3 - You truly care for her

There is a reason why you don't really feel the need to know too much about the girl you had a one-night stand with, quite simply because you do not love her. When you're in love with a woman, you want to find out all about her, what she thinks, who she is, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her feelings and her. If you really love a woman, you feel morose if she is upset about something or just had a bad day. You don't try to cheer her up because you must; you do it because you can't help it.

4 - You find her mannerism charming

The fact that she carries her passport around with her wherever she goes, just in case, and that, when she's eating, she can't help but design every forkful, so that it is the near perfect blend of ingredients, fills you with an unexplainable feeling of happiness. She says and does things that make her different, and you like it. You are unable to quite put your finger on why, but it doesn't even matter. You are just attracted to her just the way she is.

5 - You possess wonderful chemistry

You cannot be in love with a person who you have no chemistry with. If you and her seem to think in similar ways and always be on almost the same wavelength, that's a great sign. Also, she is probably someone that you could fall in love with, if you generate enough heat to set off a five-alarm fire bell, if you aren't there already.

6 - You don't look at other women as often

Did you notice that gorgeous blonde that just walked by? What do you mean by "no"?!?

Although you can't help yourself but notice a beautiful woman when one walks by, when you're in love, some of them end up slipping under the radar, while others just appear pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don't appear to be flirting half as much as you used to. You are gradually realizing that she's often the only woman in the room that matters, and, for some reason, that suits you perfectly.

7 - You crave for spending time with her

This one is fairly obvious but important regardless. You look forward to seeing her, and don't give two hoots about what the two of you will be doing. Of late, simply going for a walk with her sounds like the best way you could possibly spend an evening. Morever, when you're not together, you wish you were with her, you miss her.

8 - You don't mind stepping down sometimes

There might have been a time when it was your way or the highway, but, with her that has changed completely. It’s not that she asked you to, but you don't mind skipping a night out with the guys to be with her. And you find yourself trying to assimilate her into your plans or improvising to spend time with her. You also find yourself not putting up a tiff when she wants to go to Shakespeare in the Park. Although your friends find this quite amusing, you know that deep inside, they wish that they had found a love like yours.

9 - You make other priorities take a backseat

You used to train regularly, but lately, if she's available for dinner, you don't mind skipping a workout. Not only that, your workaholic tendency of bringing your home your work on weekends to get ahead seems a bit excessive to you as of late. Your ever-important "to-do" list seems quite stationary these days, as being with her always manages to render your other obligations and plans outmoded. What was it that you absolutely HAD to do by the dot of four again?

10 - You start contemplating about the future with her in it

It used to be the case that the future with an ordinary woman meant your date on Saturday night, but, with this woman, the future seems far away. Not only do you plan to see her the coming weekend, but you want to see her perhaps a year from now as well.

While planning your following vacation which you’ve decided you want to spend with her, and not a random beach gal you happen to meet when you arrive. And when you get invited to a wedding three months from now, you request her to be your date, without thinking that it's too farfetched to tell if you'll still be together.

By Kinjal Sen