It is not an easy to know whether she loves you or not. Even if she you like pampers you like a baby, don't take it for granted that she is in love with you. A woman gives strong yet subtle signs that she loves you.
Read on further for ways to find if a girl likes you and maybe loves you. You will find a definite answer to the questions on if she loves you. Here are tips for you guys:
SHE makes you laugh and enjoy life
You actually look forward to spending time with her, because you know you will have fun. Being able to laugh together and have fun is part of every good relationship. If she cannot share the joy of life with you easily, she won't be able to cope with the hard times that will inevitably come your way too. Even in the difficult times, she somehow can make you smile, through your tears. This is because she loves you and wants you to be happy. She gets a joy from seeing the excitement and pleasure in your expression, so she works to make you laugh.
She shows genuine concern for you
When a woman falls in love, she will worry about you and won’t be able to stay away if she notices you’re having troubles. She will let you know that she's there for you in case you need her, and she will be deeply concerned and interested in any problems you're having.
She wants to be around you as much as possible
A woman in love won’t think twice about clearing up her busy schedule for you. She will postpone her appointments, be late for meetings, and skip classes at a moments notice to spend as much time with you as possible.
SHE looks into your eyes when you talk
This sign is all about the body language. If she looks into your eyes when you talk, you know she is paying full attention to you. Obviously, this is not always practical for every conversation, especially if you are driving somewhere. However, whenever you really want to have a heart to heart discussion, she gives you her full attention, by turning her body towards you, and watching the expression on your face. This is a sign she wants to know what you are really thinking.
She touches you frequently
A woman in love enjoys being physically close to the person she appreciates so much, so you should guess her feelings from reading her body language. She will touch you often, rest her hand on your arm, massage your back when you're together and she might even have goose bumps when shnear youe’s .
SHE gives you cuddles and caresses
While touch is more important to some people than others, casual touches that are not necessarily sexual in nature are definitely signs she is letting you know that she loves you. If she wants to hold your hand when you walk anywhere together, you can be sure she is saying with her body language that she wants to be with you.
She makes sacrifices for you
Another sign that she really loves you is when she takes the time to be with you and to do the things you love to do. It is easy for her when you do the things she likes to do, but if you've noticed that she's given up these normal activities to be with you, it's an indication that she cares about you a great deal.
She wants to know about you
If your girlfriend asks about your past, your dreams, your desires (not just sexual), your wants, your needs, how you feel inspired, what you love, or anything about you that relates to your thoughts intimately as an individual, you can be very sure that she wants what is best for you. This is a very good indication she loves you.
She talks about the future with you
A woman in love will talk very excitedly about the future, making plans regarding it and telling you about the things she wants the two of you to do together. She will make subtle hints while imagining building a future with you in it.
If you are, at present, dating a woman who makes you act in any of the aforementioned ways above, then you, my friend, are definitely falling for her. It's time to rid yourself of the little black book for a while and enjoy the ride.
1 - Subtle speech
When a woman loves has fallen for a man, she won’t, in most cases, take the first step in pouring her heart out and saying “I love you,” and instead will send out subtle messages and hints for you to detect. For example, when your group of friends is on the way back from singing songs at the KTV, a girl suddenly tells you: “Could you help me keep this bag of milk warm?” At this time, men will usually feel very flabbergasted, thinking: “Why would she ask me to help her keep the milk warm? And furthermore, can my hands really warm it?” Actually, she is already intentionally giving you a subtle message.
2 - Takes the initiative to cook up a conversation
Most of the time, boys usually start conversing with girls, and this can easily lead the girl to think the boy is a Casanova. Since this is the common way of striking a conversation, many girls tend to reject it, or treat the boy with disdain. The exact opposite takes place when a girl takes the initiative to start talking with a boy, the boy will definitely not say anything like this girl is lecherous, probably because he is already beside himself with happiness, that a girl has taken the initiative and is talking to him? Similarly, a girl taking the initiative to talk with a boy, apart from work situations, is very likely that girl is attracted towards you, and is definitely interested in you because a girl would rather be beaten and bullied than allow the risk of the kind of social criticism that goes along with such behavior, i.e. talking with a boy.
3 - Often asks about your well-being
It is without any doubt that all of us, whether meeting just a normal friend or an old buddy, all ask how each another are doing, exchanging the kind of small talk that that has been passed on for ages that billions of people are familiar with to show our respect for each other. Most of the time, however, it is old men doing so without decency. Therefore, if we come across a situation developing in the other direction, and we see a girl fussing over a man, for instance saying: “Why have you donned such little clothing? How can you not expect others to be worked up? It’s such a cold day!” might appear as just common decency, but in fact is her limitless concern and love for you. This is exactly the kind of thing that only a wife tells her husband and for her to say it to you now, is the indications are obviously self-evident.
4 - Makes something out of nothing
When a guy likes a girl, he will get so agitated that his nose will bleed, yet with just a few simple phrases or words, that girl can, quite easily, stop the nosebleed that could not be stopped. The world is a strange place, the fact that there can be this kind of kung fu; it truly makes us feel completely useless. Likewise, when a girl likes a boy, there is sure to be quite a few situations you could never imagine that will happen to you. For instance, if a girl suddenly turns to you and questions whether you require her to return the book you lent to her and whether you have any other books which are similar and finally says anything is fine. These kind of statements are bound make you feel puzzled.
5 - Trance-like expression
Most people say that whenever a woman likes a man, there is something called hormones that are bound to cause mischief, something secreted within a woman’s body, usually causing discomfort for women making them unable to control themselves. No matter how hard she might try, she will get closer to the man she likes. However, during this time, a girl can’t afford to get too close or other people will suspect that their relationship isn’t appropriate. Also, she won’t be able to smell that man’s tantalizing scent if she is too far away. So, this kind of distance really makes things dubious, and in this state of dubiousness, a trance-like expression can be revealing. So when you see someone urge a girl to talk and it takes way too long for her to react, it is exactly that sort of mischief at work.
6 - Attentively ask you questions
All along Chinese people have loved to ask about other people’s private affairs, asking about why that family’s kid got into a fight or how this family’s kids got into trouble or. This is nothing to be astonished about, but when your friend tells you that there are a lot of moments when someone asks them about your life, your situation and information, you need not always think this is just other people being interfering, especially if the person in context is a man, because it may imply that he wants to ruin you and has bad intentions. On the contrary, if it is a girl, and a delicate one at that, then your caution is unnecessary. In this case, there is only one possible explanation, she already likes you. The only catch is that she is not yet ready to spill the beans, and this is just a prologue to a secret love.
7 - Winking
After having exhausted the several methods above, a woman begins to utilize a deadly weapon, winking. This is an often used weapon of devastating power, making even the most powerful men fall defenseless. Every girl will do anything she can to grab hold of her Prince Charming’s attention, exhausting all her resources and sparing no effort. There is only one goal, to make use of her eyes to fulfill the final mission. Even though this is an often-discussed problem, but how many men can tolerate this level of seduction?
8 - A shy, red face
If we claim a man gets nervous in presence of a woman, that a nosebleed is a common greeting gift he gives her, then a girl meeting a man she is attracted to, will be so shy that her face turns completely red, all the way up till her ears, her entire face flushed, just like a bright shiny spring tomato filling you with sentimental feelings and blushing like a newlywed bride. This means you have been absolutely trapped under the woman’s spell, because Sunzi’s “The Art of War” contains a section that reads “Allow somebody more latitude at first to keep a tighter rein later on,” which speaks about this exact phenomenon. Sometimes, she can fall back, retreating as well as attack your defenses’ weakest point simultaneously. She will always look for the weakest point on your body. This is what leads to the pitfall of several men.
9 - Giving gifts
When the right time arrives, a girl will always send gifts to the guy she likes. At times it’s a coat, other times it might be a T-shirt, or maybe that particular thing that men put so much emphasis on, a wristwatch. As a sign of a man’s age a wristwatch is already out of fashion, it’s still a great gift in the outlook of today’s women as the men who get a wristwatch know already that it is a very special or unusual gift packed full of meaning. Because the watch includes the girl’s deepest feelings, it won’t be unnatural for the commitment to begin. So, when a girl gives a man the something at the fitting time, a man will begin to understand that you boast great affection for him.
10 - Acting like a spoilt child in front of you
Women who behave like spoilt children have been talked about more often than not. If we say this behavior is the mark of a loose or open woman, it seems similar to depriving other capable women of being able to do this. In other words, if you act like a spoilt child in front of the man you’re attracted to, then you’re already quite open enough. In the same context, a girl who knows how to behave like a spoilt child can simply get pity from a man. This lets a woman beat a man’s best defenses. For example, if you say “Hey let’s go eat!” and then pour in a few whiny babyish noises. If you still refuse to comply, she’ll grab you and tug at your clothes and plead and plead like a child till you eventually agree and end up going.
By Kinjal Sen